sad i know

That's a great question and if there was a solution then websites like this would not need to exist. Unfortunately free music is not given out very often but what you will find is loads of free stuff on Drum Tab sites. Simply type into google the name of the song followed by "Drum Tab" and most of the time you'll be lucky.

Drum Tab isn't as pleasant to read as real music but is a little easier to follow for the novice. Swings and roundabouts really. The other problem is that a lot of these drum tab charts are written by amateurs and are filled with mistakes. It's a good place to start though and as long as the song you're learning isn't too complicated you can be pretty sure of the charts accuracy.

Good luck and happy drumming!

Rob